1. Not Understanding the Importance of Sports
For many Americans, sports are more than just a pastime—they’re a lifestyle. Whether it’s football (American style), baseball, or basketball, expect to hear about sports all the time. If you find yourself at a bar during a big game, brace yourself for the intense fandom. It’s not just a game—it’s a cultural event!
2. Underestimating Portion Sizes
You’ve probably heard that everything is bigger in America, and it’s true. If you order a “small” coffee or “side” salad, you might find yourself staring at a meal fit for a small army. It’s not uncommon for portions to be so large that you can easily share with a friend, so prepare to box up leftovers.
3. Missing the Importance of High School Proms
Prom is a big deal in the US, especially for high school seniors. You might find yourself caught off guard when a bunch of teenagers turns up in tuxedos and glittery gowns like they’ve walked straight out of a movie. Don’t be surprised if you see someone hiring a limousine just to go down the street to the event!
4. Getting Overexcited About the ‘Free Refills’
It’s tempting to take full advantage of free refills, especially at fast food places. But keep in mind, American servers expect you to pace yourself. If you refill that soda four times in 30 minutes, you might get some odd looks from the staff (or at least a raised eyebrow).
5. Mistaking ‘Vacation’ for ‘Work’
Americans love their vacations, but don’t confuse them with a European holiday where people take long, slow breaks. In the US, vacations are often packed with activities, trips, and excursions, and it’s not uncommon for a trip to the Grand Canyon to be jam-packed with Instagram-worthy photo ops. Don’t expect a “relaxing” time if you’re not prepared for packed schedules!
6. Assuming Everyone Knows About Your Country
It’s always a shock for tourists when they realize that Americans might not know where their country is or much about its culture. While many Americans are well-traveled, geography isn’t always their strong suit. Don’t be surprised if a quick mention of your hometown is met with confusion.
7. Missing the Charm of Bachelorette Parties
If you find yourself in a big city, you’ll likely run into bachelorette parties. In the US, these are often more like mini-parades, with the bride-to-be donning a sash and crown while her friends wear matching outfits (sometimes with hilarious themes). The level of enthusiasm here is off the charts, so don’t be shy to get involved in the fun if you’re invited!
8. Getting Confused by American English
Yes, English is the language here, but it’s not the same as British English! From “trash” instead of “rubbish” to “apartment” instead of “flat,” the language quirks are endless. Keep your ears open to avoid confusion—especially when Americans start throwing around words like “sidewalk” or “elevator.”
9. Ignoring Tipping Culture
When tourists visit the US, they often forget that tipping is a big deal here. In most restaurants, servers rely on tips to make up a chunk of their paycheck. The standard? Around 15-20% of the bill. If you don’t tip, you’re not just being rude, you’re also costing the staff their livelihood!
10. Assuming Everyone Eats Fast Food
It’s easy to think of the US as the land of fast food, but Americans actually love their fresh food too. Sure, there’s a burger joint on every corner, but local farmers’ markets, artisan coffee shops, and organic grocery stores are popping up everywhere. Don’t miss out on tasting local flavors, especially when the food scene is so diverse!
11. Overlooking the Need for a Car
You’ve heard of the convenience of American public transport (or lack thereof). Unless you’re in major cities like New York or San Francisco, having a car is pretty much essential. The US is sprawling, and getting around without one can be tricky, especially in places where taxis or Ubers aren’t as easily available.
12. Thinking All Americans Are ‘Friendly’
It’s true that Americans can be outgoing and warm, but not everyone is going to greet you with a big smile. In larger cities, people tend to keep to themselves or are busy hustling. So, while some might chat you up in a grocery store, don’t be shocked if others act like they’re in a hurry (they probably are!).
13. Forgetting That Laws Vary By State
The US is a huge country with different rules in each state. What’s legal in California might not be in Texas. So, if you’re traveling around, be mindful of local laws, especially when it comes to alcohol, smoking, or even something as simple as jaywalking. Check the rules before you make assumptions.
14. Confusing ‘American’ with ‘The USA’
It’s easy to mix up the terms “American” and “USA,” but they’re not quite the same. Technically, “American” could refer to anyone from the entire continent of North or South America. So, when you’re in the US, remember—you’re in the United States, not the “whole” America.
15. Being Surprised by the Weather
The US is known for its unpredictable weather. You might experience all four seasons in one week, especially if you’re traveling across the country. Pack layers, check weather apps, and be ready for anything—because one day could be 70°F and sunny, and the next could bring a snowstorm!
