1. Washington
Seattle might have the “Seattle Freeze”—a term for how locals are friendly on the surface but avoid forming deep connections. Many newcomers complain it’s hard to break into social circles, leading to a reputation for passive-aggressive behavior.
2. Massachusetts
Boston drivers are infamous, and the term “Masshole” didn’t come from nowhere. From impatient honking to aggressive sports fans, this state has a reputation for being rough around the edges. But ask a local, and they’ll tell you it’s all in good fun—or at least practical.
3. New Jersey
The Garden State’s reputation stems from a combination of impatient commuters and its proximity to bustling New York City. Whether it’s honking in traffic or a lack of small talk at diners, New Jersey’s brusqueness can feel overwhelming.
4. Illinois
Chicagoans can be standoffish, especially when dealing with tourists who clog up their city streets. Whether it’s cutting in line at a hot dog stand or glaring at out-of-towners during rush hour, Illinois residents have a reputation for being impatient and no-nonsense.
5. Nevada
Las Vegas might be a fun destination, but it’s also full of tired locals who work long hours in the service industry. Tourists often complain about curt service, but locals argue it’s hard to stay chipper while catering to demanding visitors 24/7.
6. Florida
Florida’s reputation for rudeness comes from its diverse mix of cultures, snowbirds, and stressed-out tourists. Miami, in particular, is known for flashy behavior and impatience, where folks might cut you off in traffic or skip the line without a second thought.
7. Texas
Southern hospitality usually defines Texas, but in cities like Dallas or Houston, the charm sometimes gives way to a bit of arrogance. Texans are known for their pride, and some visitors interpret their larger-than-life attitudes as dismissive or overconfident.
8. California
Wait, sunny California? Believe it or not, some say Californians can be aloof and self-absorbed, especially in major cities like Los Angeles. The stereotype of tech workers glued to their phones or Hollywood-types ignoring “regular” people contributes to this perception.
9. Pennsylvania
Pennsylvania’s blend of gritty cities and rural areas makes for an interesting mix of manners. Philadelphia’s sports fans are particularly infamous—they’ve booed their own teams and even Santa Claus. Meanwhile, Pittsburgh locals can come across as guarded.
10. Connecticut
Connecticut’s residents have a reputation for being reserved to the point of snobbery. People from the state’s wealthier suburbs can seem cold or dismissive, especially when interacting with those outside their social circles.
11. Michigan
Detroit’s no-nonsense reputation spills over to the rest of Michigan. Locals pride themselves on their hardworking attitude, but the lack of small-town charm or patience can come off as rude to outsiders.
12. New York
New Yorkers often top the list when it comes to blunt attitudes. Some argue it’s not rudeness, but efficiency—locals have places to be and no time for chit-chat. That said, pushing past someone on the subway or ignoring basic pleasantries can feel harsh to out-of-towners.
13. Alaska
Alaskans are fiercely independent, and while that’s admirable, it can sometimes come off as unwelcoming. Add in the harsh winters and geographic isolation, and you might find locals a little brusque with strangers.
14. Rhode Island
Small state, big attitude. Rhode Islanders are known for their tight-knit communities, but that insularity can feel unkind to outsiders. Combine that with the state’s aggressive drivers, and it’s easy to see why it made the list.
